Before the Ceremony
"The Luckenbooth"
Called the Luckenbooth because they were sold from the locked booths of
the Royal Mile, adjacent to St. Giles Cathedral in Edinburgh. This type
of love token seems to go back to at least the 1600s. Luckenbooth's were
traditionally exchanged between lovers on betrothal. They were sometimes
pinned to the shawl of the first baby to protect it from evil spirits.
There are many surviving antique brooches of this type in museums in Scotland.
Some of these were made by traveling tinkers and sold to gentlemen for
their ladies. Some have passed from generation to generation to become
valuable heirlooms. Sometimes inscribed phrases such as " Of earthly
joys thou art my choice." are evidence of their purpose. They are
probably the most romantic type of brooch in Scotland's history, hence
their enduring appeal. This type brooch even came to America and simple
forms of this brooch were cut from coins and used for trade among the
Eastern Woodland Indians. Many people know about the traditional Claddagh
ring of Ireland with its crowned heart but fewer know of this wonderful
traditional love token. If you do historical re enacting or just love
to enjoy Scottish traditions, this is a perfect piece to purchase for
yourself or a loved one.
Penny Bridal or Silver Bridal
These festivities, also known as Penny Weddings, were renown for feasting,
drinking, dancing and fighting and were enjoyed by all except the clergy
- who disapproved of such raucous behavior. Opinions that were wholeheartedly
ignored! Gifts were made to the newly weds towards the cost of the wedding
feast and the wild celebrations started on the eve of the wedding with
singing, toasts and the ceremony of 'feet washing'.
Feet Washing
A tub of water was placed in the best room, in which the bride placed
her feet, her female friends then gathered around to help wash them. A
wedding ring from a happily married woman was previously placed in the
tub and it was believed that whoever found the ring would be the next
to get married. The men folk were outside the door making jokes and attempting
to watch through the doorway. The bridegroom was then seized by the women
and made to sit at the tub. His legs were none too gently daubed with
soot, ashes and cinders - quite a painful procedure!
The Open House - "Show of Presents"
Before the bride is married, her mother holds an open house for a traditional
"show of presents." Similar to a bridal shower, invitations
are sent to the women among those who gave wedding gifts to the couple.
The wedding gifts are unwrapped and set out with the card of the gift
giver. The occasion is an opportunity for the bride to get acquainted
with the wedding party members and guests before the wedding. After the
show of presents, the bride is dressed in long trains made of old curtains
or other household materials. She is given a baby doll, a plastic potty
with salt in the bottom, and other small items to carry. Her friends and
guests escort her through her town, singing and banging pots and pans,
heralding the bride's upcoming nuptials. To gather luck, the bride exchanges
kisses for money, which is dropped into the potty.
The Brides "Taking Out"
After the show of presents, some Scottish brides are made up and dressed
in long trains that could be made from old curtains decorated in whatever
party material at hand. Or else, they are dressed in already prepared
and garnished costumes. The bride may be given a baby doll, a plastic
potty with salt in the bottom, and other small items to carry in her arms.
Thus adorned and made up, the bride is traditionally taken out around
town by her friends and any remaining guests from the show of presents.
The women make plenty of noise by singing and banging pot lids and pans
to herald the bride's status. To gather luck, the bride exchanges kisses
for money to be dropped into the potty as the group goes from place to
place around town. The purpose of the salt-filled potty, the doll, the
money, is believed to be for luck, prosperity and fertility.
The Stag Night
The groom gets taken out for a stag night which is the equivalent to the
bride's taking out. Although stemming more from a British tradition than
a Scottish one, the groom is sometimes dressed up and taken around town
for his stag night by his male companions. At times the groom is put into
a padded outfit to look like a pregnant woman. More often, he and his
friends would find a bar or party place to celebrate by drinking to excess.
They may indulge in a great deal of (for the most part) harmless practical
joking, of which the groom is the main target. When the wild night winds
down, the groom may be left in the street in front of his home partially
or totally stripped of his clothes, and in some occasions tied up.
The Highland custom of 'Creeling of the Bridegroom'
As the groom in more recent days endures the jokes at his expense, so
too did the Highland groom of the past endured the jokes of his friends.
In the Scottish Highlands, an old custom known as creeling the bridegroom
was often practiced. A large basket or 'creel', was filled with stones
and tied to the bridegroom's back. He then had to carry it around the
entire town unless his bride agreed to kiss him. Only if she did, would
his friends allow him to escape from the 'creeling' otherwise he had to
continue until he had completed the circuit of the town.
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